The Scenarist

The next fellow I met was a few years older — a refined, intelligent and handsome gentleman. He wore his wisdom sexy, always spouting knowledge and historical references to black culture or pastimes. He split residency between here and LA as a script writer. We dated once or twice and any other time after that I was too drained to kick it and fool around. Long story short, we part for the reason that he felt “inconvenienced,” whether that be in general or sexually I don’t know. However, what I can’t understand is how (some of) you men “state interest” insinuating the potential you view in us being more than, yet entertain other women who you consider to “better than” or of an “upper-echelon” group of African-Americans. According to Polina Solda, dating expert “breadcrumbling” is the newest term for bad dating behavior that only leads to false hope. It’s similar to a tease with no follow through and it leaves a person (more likely the woman) hanging, hoping and going up and down an emotional roller coaster. Known as “Hansel and Gretelling, Urban Dictionary defines it as “when a guy or girl gives someone just enough attention to keep their hopes of a relationship alive.” Solda says it tends to be a move that feed egos and the easiest thing to do is not engage. “Just cut it off, or you can inform the person of your disinterest.” Experts say the trend happens more often as a result of dating apps (hence the 50SOT) where communication is mostly through text messages. In other words, meet men the old-fashioned way — in person. Lol! In closing, my message to you DEGENERATE men folk (TO WHOM IT APPLIES) is to have several seats when it comes to flaunting your ego and masculinity! Stop fronting and be forward with your intentions. If any, please leave your thoughts or comments.